19 07, 2019

How can Virtual Mediation Help Your Holidays?

2019-07-19T12:37:00+00:00

Virtual Mediation can help smooth the holidays. Divorcing couples or recently divorced couples commonly experience some sadness over the holidays. If they have young children the feelings of loss and grief can be even greater. Underlying these feelings of holiday loss and sadness are often deeper layers of emotions

How can Virtual Mediation Help Your Holidays?2019-07-19T12:37:00+00:00
19 07, 2019

What is the Best Pace for Divorce Mediation?

2019-07-19T12:52:00+00:00

One important benefit of divorce mediation is the parties control the tempo of the process. Usually the divorcing couple can sustain a tempo or time line that works adequately for both of them. Unfortunately, there are occasions when the parties are not in alignment on the pace. This imbalance can

What is the Best Pace for Divorce Mediation?2019-07-19T12:52:00+00:00
19 07, 2019

Do’s and Don’ts When Beginning With Divorce Mediation

2019-08-07T08:12:26+00:00

While every couple going through a divorce presents a different personality profile and every case has different factual and legal issues, there are some “do’s and don’ts” that have helped many couples experience the best possible outcome in terms of fairness and reasonableness through divorce mediation. Here is a

Do’s and Don’ts When Beginning With Divorce Mediation2019-08-07T08:12:26+00:00
19 07, 2019

Should We Work Out Some Issues in Advance of Going to a Divorce Mediator?

2019-08-07T08:17:37+00:00

As a divorce mediator, I am frequently asked by couples contacting me for the first time, “What do we need to do to prepare for mediation? What do you need from us?” It’s a good question; by asking it most couples are indicating they want the process to move

Should We Work Out Some Issues in Advance of Going to a Divorce Mediator?2019-08-07T08:17:37+00:00
19 07, 2019

Divorcing and Can’t Communicate at All?

2019-08-07T08:19:50+00:00

How can we get our divorce through mediation when we absolutely cannot communicate?…I mean we never (ever) want to be in the same room again! I have had some utterly heartbreaking divorce cases over the years. Couples who were once in love are not just ending their marriage; they are utterly

Divorcing and Can’t Communicate at All?2019-08-07T08:19:50+00:00
19 07, 2019

A Letter From a Satisfied Client

2019-08-07T08:21:13+00:00

Note from John: Couples who are considering a divorce mediator usually want to have some idea of what to expect in how their mediation process will be facilitated. A client whose case is now closed wrote me a letter of appreciation. With their permission, I share this letter with you,

A Letter From a Satisfied Client2019-08-07T08:21:13+00:00
19 07, 2019

9 Common Child Custody Mediation Questions

2020-10-01T17:47:56+00:00

Legal custody, physical custody and visitation embody very different concepts and parents need to clearly understand them in order to make good decisions in their divorce. This article will answer many of yours child custody mediation questions. Summary Legal custody, physical custody and visitation schedules are vital

9 Common Child Custody Mediation Questions2020-10-01T17:47:56+00:00
19 07, 2019

Divorce Mediation and Family Issues

2019-07-19T12:50:21+00:00

Ending a marriage while raising minor children is difficult on every level – emotional, financial, social, familial, physical and, for many, spiritual. Along with the normal emotions associated with a failed relationship and the legal issues which must be sorted out in any divorce, the impact on the children adds

Divorce Mediation and Family Issues2019-07-19T12:50:21+00:00
19 07, 2019

Divorce Mediation Without Children

2019-08-07T08:23:24+00:00

Mediation has become more popular in California for couples going through a divorce. Here are some answers for people without minor children as to what happens at divorce mediations as opposed to more traditional divorce proceedings. This article is a companion to my article about expectations concerning divorce mediation in California for

Divorce Mediation Without Children2019-08-07T08:23:24+00:00
19 07, 2019

Mediation Versus Lawyers – What is best for you?

2019-07-19T12:47:30+00:00

A couple going through a divorce has basically three choices: Pay attorneys to advocate for them against their spouse’s attorney, or Try to do their divorce by themselves (DIY), or Work together through mediation. Here is a look at the pros and cons of hiring lawyers or a mediator. (I

Mediation Versus Lawyers – What is best for you?2019-07-19T12:47:30+00:00